At my University, the Zeta’s were involved in the community and had a good
reputation. The Zeta’s and Sigma's were warm and welcoming to me from the first
informational. Once I became a member I ran for an office and won. I wanted to be at the forefront of the decision making and to shape the culture and direction of the chapter as well as to mentor others, and uphold the community work, sisterhood, and improve its operations.

Calling me or texting me is a good way to connect. I go through up and downs with my health and I dont like to share when things are not going well, so when people genuinely show up and ask about me I feel connected to them.

The day I became a member.

Travel, family, cooking, mentoring, teaching, learning (I am starting my PhD in  January and have multiple certifications and constantly getting CEUs), I am starting to garden.

Scholarship resonates very high, as a first-generation college graduate, I deeply value the power of education and knowledge. Having the opportunity to contribute meaningfully and make informed decisions because of what I’ve learned motivates me to continue growing and to advocate for others to do the same.  Service also holds a special place in my heart.

I grew up in a family that experienced significant
hardship, including times when we slept on the floor. One Thanksgiving, a local church engaged in community mission work reached out to us. Though my parents were initially hesitant to accept help, the volunteers continued to show up with compassion and consistency—eventually providing us with food, clothing, Christmas gifts, and even beds. That experience left a lasting impression on me.

As an adult, I’ve made it a point to give back to that same mission and to serve my community through both my time and my profession. The impact of that kindness shaped who I am today, and I feel a deep responsibility to extend that same care to others.

This is an interesting question, as I have reflected on it in several ways. Two significant times when Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. showed up for me were during my husband’s active duty military service and after my heart transplant. When my husband was serving, I often relied on the sorority directory before each move to connect with Zetas in the new area. I would reach out, learn about the community, and even meet for lunch once I arrived. Those connections made me feel like I had family, even when my biological relatives were far away. It gave me an immediate sense of belonging and community during times of transition. After my heart transplant, I was part of a local chapter and, although I tend to keep my health matters private, I shared my situation with a few Sorors. One of them whom I had met through the sisterhood—flew from Hawaii to Florida to care for me during my recovery. She stayed in my home for over six weeks, providing support and companionship at a time when I needed it most. That experience reaffirmed to me that Zeta is more than just an organization—it is a true sisterhood. I believe God places us in certain spaces for a reason, and my journey with Zeta has been a powerful reminder of that purpose and connection.